Relationships are like a piece of cloth. No matter how good the fabric is, if you see through it closely you’ll find holes in it, though minute they are.
But it’s not the holes but how we look at them makes all the difference.
If we know how to knit through using a needle which may prick both sides of the cloths equally, then we may end up making a beautiful craft.
On the other hand, if we just paint on the cloth, we do it only on one side leaving the gaps or simply the marks of the gaps on the other side.
Now the choice is yours whether you want to enhance the beauty of the gaps by knitting them into a beautiful piece or you want to hind them behind a layer.
There are many other options as well for dealing with gaps. Choose wisely. Knit well to fit in well.